Moving past Mommy Guilt and Embracing Joy

Start letting go of shame, because God did not create us to feel less than.

As any parent knows, there is a special gift that comes with the honor of having children that is called “mommy guilt.”  You are barraged from day 1 of your pregnancy with lists of don’t-do that-but-be-sure-to-do-this.  And far too often those lists contradict each other.  To cry it out or not, baby wear or not, breast […]

moving past mommy guilt

An Easy Way to Reduce Step-Parenting Battles

The one thing you need to know to prevent back-and-forth, tug-o-war, arguments.

Sometimes the life of stepmom can feel like a constant battle.  You are coming into a situation where dad and kids have their own routines and systems that you have to try to fit into.  Step-kids may resent changes in the family dynamic and be resistant to accepting you into their lives.  And of course […]

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Blended Family Discipline: Strategies That Work

Ideas to ease tension and make blended family discipline simpler.

One of the most challenging parts of stepping into a marriage where kids are already present is learning how to have the stepparent deal with discipline.  As with many parenting decisions, I believe that there is no one, set in stone, way to deal with this issue.  However there are some valuable lessons that I […]

Making Blended Family Discipline Work