131 Stress Busters and Mood Boosters For Kids

Inspire kids to bust stress, boost their mood, and achieve their goals!

Inspire your kids to bust stress, boost their mood, and achieve their goals! My new book 131 Stress Busters and Mood Boosters For Kids, will guide you on the journey. This book comes with a printable workbook filled with creative activities that reinforce the key ideas in the book. Best of all, you can get […]

Stress Busters and Mood Boosters For Kids

How to Preserve The Gift Of Being a Blended Family

As I sat next to my step-mother, watching my dad’s casket being slowly lowered into the ground, the thought occurred to me: not only was I surrounded by extended family, but by my blended family. My mother Petra died when I was 7 years old. Three days before I received my First Communion; only a […]

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Grace Based Parenting in Our Blended Family Home

How to parent with grace, while keeping the rules in tact.

This month I have been learning a lot about grace.  We have been talking in church about giving and receiving grace, in MOPS this is a topic of discussion, and I started studying the book Grace Based Parenting by Dr. Tim Kimmel.  And I have been finding these lessons extremely helpful in my everyday life. […]

Grace Based Parenting

Behind the Link: Our Interview on Happy 100 Days

Check our our interview and link-up your latest posts--Thanks guys, we are honored!

Why did you start blogging? Jenny and I began blogging because we wanted to share what we are learning about blended family life and family leadership. We also wanted to encourage others to keep growing in their faith. In the process, we discovered that writing is an excellent way to continue our own growth, while […]

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Moving past Mommy Guilt and Embracing Joy

Start letting go of shame, because God did not create us to feel less than.

As any parent knows, there is a special gift that comes with the honor of having children that is called “mommy guilt.”  You are barraged from day 1 of your pregnancy with lists of don’t-do that-but-be-sure-to-do-this.  And far too often those lists contradict each other.  To cry it out or not, baby wear or not, breast […]

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An Easy Way to Reduce Step-Parenting Battles

The one thing you need to know to prevent back-and-forth, tug-o-war, arguments.

Sometimes the life of stepmom can feel like a constant battle.  You are coming into a situation where dad and kids have their own routines and systems that you have to try to fit into.  Step-kids may resent changes in the family dynamic and be resistant to accepting you into their lives.  And of course […]

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Blended Family Discipline: Strategies That Work

Ideas to ease tension and make blended family discipline simpler.

One of the most challenging parts of stepping into a marriage where kids are already present is learning how to have the stepparent deal with discipline.  As with many parenting decisions, I believe that there is no one, set in stone, way to deal with this issue.  However there are some valuable lessons that I […]

Making Blended Family Discipline Work

Sharing and Re-Sharing Your Blended Family Story

Why your story matters, and needs to be told!

Your story matters! Cognitive therapists know that the nuances of our story, are just as important as the story itself. For example, a person undergoing horrific circumstances, might refer to herself as a victim, and as a result, feel intense shame. Another person, facing similar hardships, will proclaim herself a survivor, and feel proud at having overcome adversity. How we choose tell our blended […]

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How to Celebrate an Unfair Christmas

Why an unfair Christmas, is a great Christmas!

On Christmas morning, Jenny and I try to keep thing fair. We are blended family, so Jenny and I are hyper-vigilant about keeping things even among all of the children. Jenny meticulously counts the number of presents, each child will receive, before setting them under the tree. She has a common step-mommy concern. Jenny doesn’t want her stepdaughters to find things unfair, and think […]

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Picking a Fight with an Unjust Law

A fluke in our family court system is putting our children at risk. Would your pray for us?

This is a longer, more personal, post than usual, and sharing these twist and turns in our story isn’t easy. I rewrote these thoughts three times, and considered deleting them entirely. I love helping others, but I disdain sharing my own pain. Writing about hurts in the past is one thing, but sharing our struggles, while in the midst of the storm, is […]

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